Shifting Your Mindset Constructively To Attract The Hot Bitches

sexy girl walking silhouetteWhat do you think about when you see a hot girl walk by? You may feel nervousness, anxiety or excitement. These are normal emotions. More importantly how do you feel or react to her behavior after the approach? She may react positively and you will feel great! But what if she ignores you or acts like a “bitch” or is rude to you? How do you feel and perceive it then? This is where the game is played and depending on how you frame it and carry yourself, will determine your progression and success in game and even life.

Let’s focus on one aspect of this at a time and ask ourselves, is she really a cold-hearted bitch? You may think that she is just a rich, spoiled brat and is only after celebrities or guys who are wealthy. You might even think that she is just an evil person and lacks empathy for whatever reason. These are all just hasty assumptions about someone you probably only spoke with for a few seconds and you judged her by her first response. How can you truly know someone from such a short interaction?

Women are not bitches. Their initial behaviors are not always an indication of their character. Put yourself in their shoes for a second. Imagine you are a hot girl walking throughout the day to get her business or errands done. Take a guess how many times you will be approached or even cat-called in 1 day by guys? A shitload! Check out this video of a social experiment of girl walking through NYC during the day.

There is some controversy in this video because the girl was walking through a predominately ghetto neighborhood so she may have experienced more sexual harassment than in other places. It still illustrated the point. After being poorly approached countless times by guys who are either uncalibrated, boring or even disrespectful, women have developed automatic responses to get rid of these guys. Do you think she is being rude to these by ignoring them? Not really. She doesn’t need to respond if it doesn’t require a response. Take a look at how creepy some of these guys are being. If it makes you cringe, imagine how the girl is feeling!!!

Perhaps at first, the woman might be have been polite and just said something simple like, “Thanks” when a guy gave a compliment. Some guys may have be encouraged by this and continued to pursue this further, which is great, but most guys were uncalibrated. He starts getting too sexually aggressive without being calibrated. He might act very awkward or weird and say some stupid things. She starts to acquire negative reference experiences from being approached by these guys.

So she got tired of being polite. Many guys who try to approach her now, she associates them with the same guys from her past negative experiences. Now she just ignores them or preemptively acts “rude” back and not having to deal with them at all. Most guys will just give up and leave her alone. This is the most efficient method for her and expends the least amount of her energy (physically, mentally and emotionally).

You should have more a perspective as to why she may be acting the way she is. Most women are not bitches at the core. So don’t take it personal when she ignores or acts rude towards you. She is just associating you with the countless guys who approached her the wrong way in the past. She doesn’t know who you are or anything about you. She is just reacting and rejecting your behavior, not you as a person. Grow from it, change it up a bit and approach another girl.

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Learn how to approach women effectively to get a good response and continue to game them. Develop basic conversational skills to make it interesting and unique for her instead of the countless repetitive interview and unemotional questions she always gets. Set yourself apart from the rest of the guys and break rapport to spark attraction and create some healthy and flirtatious tension. Qualify her to get her invested and chase you. Always provide value and make her feel good. Most importantly, always think positive and have a curious and growth mindset to enjoy the process, have fun and always becoming a better version of yourself.

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