Lost Threesome, Last Minute Resistance & Growing From Your “Mistakes”

Should you switch girls with your wingman once you’re in isolation to save the set? This is something I had to decide last weekend when I brought over 2 girls to my friend’s place for an afterparty and had learnt it the hard way.

Just to give you a background and breakdown on the night, I was out in Newark with some friends to catch up and game some girls.

One of my friends is a natural that always seemed to be able to get girls when we were in college. I was learning game when I first met him, so he was naturally better than me at the time in terms of attraction, but I always approached more.

It was one of the commonalities we shared. We loved to go out and meet women. He would approach sometimes back then and we would wing each other. He usually had better success than me back then.

Things are a little different now…

So back to last weekend. After we pre-gamed for a bit at my friend’s place, we went to this bar called Vivo Lounge in the Ironbound District of Newark.

For those of you who don’t know, the Ironbound has a large Brazilian and Portuguese population, which means a lot of hot exotic women.

Warming Up And Pre-Opening

Once we were inside, my friend and his cousin went straight to the bar to get some drinks and hookah. I pre-opened a few sets before I met up with them so I could get warmed up and build some social proof and preselection.

vivo lounge hookah

All the sets hooked pretty well, and when I met up with my friend, he smiled at me said to just chill for a bit, and that it’s still early. Lol yea sorry I can’t help but start opening as soon as I get into a venue. It’s a good habit to have.

We chilled out at the bar for a couple minutes and my friend ordered us all drinks. I don’t usually drink, but I won’t turn down a drink if it is offered to me. You don’t want to punish compliance and it helps keep the vibe going.

After we got our drinks and did a toast, I immediately opened a 2 set next to us. I complimented one of the girls and she was really receptive.

I did some rapid escalation by giving her a hug and kiss on the forehead as a reward when she told me where she was from, and she was all smiles. I then went back to my friends and we started smoking some hookah.

That night they were showing the Holm vs Tate and McGregor vs Diaz fight, which was pretty intense. I watched a few rounds with them and we were really getting into the fight.

While the fight was happening, I was opening a few sets as they were walking near us or buying drinks at the bar. I opened this really hot Brazilian 4 set.

I complimented one of the girls and did my usual rapid escalation and she was loving it. I got introduced to 3 other hot Brazilian friends and I gave them all hugs when I found out they were all Brazilian and they all laughed.

I then introduced the hottest girl to my friend and they shook hands and exchanged names. The girls ordered their drinks at the bar and then went off to the dance floor.

Preselection With Dancefloor Game

I then re-opened the 2 set next to us. She had her back turned at first as she was talking to her friend.

I got her attention, by lightly touching her forearm and turning her around. I just made eye contact with her and without saying a word, I slowly raised her hand with mine to assume the Bachata dancing position.

She smiled and asked me if we were dancing, and I just held eye contact and nodded, and she laughed. We started dancing Bachata and she seemed surprised that I knew how to dance. I guess it’s because I look like a gringo lol.

I recently started taking some free Bachata classes at this Latin lounge near me, and I was doing some cool spins with her, and she was really enjoying it.

I saw her friend nearby at the bar smiling and looking at us while we were dancing. My girl found a solo guy nearby and asked him to dance with her friend, but the guy seemed a little shy and didn’t take initiative at first.

After several seconds, I decided it would be good to dance with both of them to build more preselection and attraction between them and raise BT.

However, when I started to grab her friend’s to dance with us, my girl let my hand go and let me dance Bachata with her friend. I didn’t mind because her friend was actually hotter and she was really digging the dance as well.

Then the other guy started dancing with my original girl. I guess he finally found his balls lol. He only danced with her for about a song. I then danced with both of them for a bit.

I also danced with the hotter girl in the middle of the dance floor once Salsa music came on since she said she know how to dance Salsa.

We did some cool spins I knew to pump her BT and build preselection throughout the room.

After the song ended, I brought her back to the bar to her friend, and then took a small break by going into the restroom and pre-opening a couple sets along the way.

Cheerful girls living it up on the dance floor

When I came out of the restroom, I re-opened the hot Brazilian 4 set on the dancefloor. I immediately smiled and made eye contact with the hottest girl, took her hand, spun her and started dancing with her.

The friends made a circle and danced around us and we’re all having a great time. I switch off between a few of the Brazilian girls and dance in the dance circle with them and we’re killing it. My preselection is soaring.

I love dancefloor game lol.

Warm Introductions And Wingmanship

After I danced with a few of them, I then just chilled and grooved outside the dance circle while talking with one of them. I quickly build rapport and attraction by breaking rapport and qualifying her.

After about 30 seconds, I tell her I want to introduce her to my friends but she has to promise not to embarrass me.

She asks me where are my friends, I point to the bar and say they are right over there and we’ll go there for a second and come back. She then says OK, and I start leading her by the wrist, through the crowd.

We get to my friend and I introduce her to him. I give my friend an accomplishment intro by saying he does real estate development, which is true. She immediately gets interested and starts asking him real estate questions.

I let them be alone because I wanted each of my friends to have a girl. I then went back to the dancefloor and re-opened the Brazilian set. I danced with them for a bit.

I was able to isolate 2 girls at the bar for about a minute each at different times. I tried to find my friend’s cousin so I could introduce one of them to him, but couldn’t find him so the girls ended up going back to the dancefloor to dance.

Potential Threesome With Girlfriends

I went back to the spot at the bar where I left my friend with the girl I introduced him to. I see them getting pretty close and hugging each other. Perfect. Now it’s time find a set for myself and stick with it.

I see a cute red-head and open her by complimenting her hair.

FYI, I love red-heads so if you know a cute one, introduce me to her lol…

Anyway, she’ super receptive and give her a hug and say she’s adorable and ask where she is from. After she tells me where she’s from, I then give her a big hug and kiss her on the forehead, and she gives me the biggest smile.

I see she is with a friend who’s smiling as she’s watching us, so I smile and look at her and ask the red-head if that’s her friend.

She confirms and I introduce myself to her friend who is actually hotter. She’s super friendly towards me too and I escalated with her with a hug and high energy with her.

After speaking with them for a couple minutes, I find out the red-haired girl is Irish and the black-haired girl is Italian.

The Irish girl needed to go to the restroom and she asked where it was. I told her where it was and said I would lead her there.

I then took her wrist and lead her to the bathroom and her other friend followed. The Irish girl went to the bathroom and I was talking with her friend just outside of it.

I got pretty close with her friend and qualified her a bit. Then her Irish friend came out and we all started talking for a bit. The Italian girl said that her friend was cute, and I agreed.

2 hot girls talking and hugging guy

She kept saying she was cute and was trying to get us to hookup.

I felt the sexual tension rise and opportunity so I kissed the Irish girl in front of her friend.

I then gave them both a hug and held them together for a bit to build up the sexual tension between us.

I thought about going for a three way make-out but I hesitated for a bit.

After a few seconds I kissed the Italian girl in front of the Irish girl while I was hugging both of them.

If kissed the Italian girl sooner, when I had the thought of the three-way make-out, I’m 99% sure it would have gone down and it would have been money.

The sexual tension was starting to lower and one of the girls wanted to get a drink at the bar, so I led them to the bar.

The Italian girl ordered a drink for all of us. I was a little too eager to bring back up the sexual tension so I said a few things, where I probably ended up qualifying myself a bit and may have lowered my rapport or attraction with the Irish girl.

What I should have done was gone for the 3 way make-out way earlier. Now the only thing I could do was to just chill, qualify the girls and wait for the Italian girl to order us a drink and then raise the BT as a whole.

The Italian girl then wanted to dance so I led her to the dance floor. I tried to dance with both of them but only was able to dance with the Italian girl. The Irish girl seemed to lose attraction with me and wouldn’t let me spin her.

I kissed the Italian girl a few times on the dance floor and we danced for a while. Her friend went off and ended up sitting down for hookah with some guys.

After a few minutes dancing with my girl, she said she was worried where her friend went, but I pointed out where she was, and she felt comfortable again.

I pre-seeded the afterparty pull to “Brooklyn” as a joke and she was down. “Brooklyn” was an inside joke from earlier where the Irish girl said she was from there, but she’s actually from NJ but she just loves Brooklyn.

I also pre-seeded the pull back to the Italian girl’s place. She told me she lived by herself and she seemed to agree when she wanted to confirm and asked me if I wanted to go back to her place, and I said I did. Nice.

She then asked me if I wanted to go outside for smoke and I said I would go outside with her, so I could have isolation and move a step closer to the sex location, whether it be my car, her car, my friend’s place or a neutral location.

She then started getting her coat, and I told her that I needed to get my coat. She offered me her coat while taking hers off, but I held the frame and told her to put it back on. She kept insisting, but I insisted more and put it back on her.

I would have fallen into her frame when she would take the “masculine” role of giving me her coat lol…

She definitely got more attracted to me because she grabbed my dick and bit her lips after I said this and had put her coat back on. Cool.

After she put on her coat, she told her friend she was going outside and it looked like her friend thought we were leaving because she was waving goodbye to us.

I then lead my girl to coat check to grab my coat. We then walk outside and she smokes. She offered me some but I told her that I was smoking hookah all night.

people smoking outside club

I don’t smoke cigarettes, but I do smoke Hookah sometimes. This allowed me to not really punish her compliance for offering me a smoke, but I also built a slight commonality that I already smoked earlier.

We speak for a bit and I talk about having an afterparty at her place. She said she’s not sure if her friend thinks we left yet and she doesn’t want to leave her friend.

I then see my friend leave Vivo with the same girl I introduced to him earlier. Looks like he’s pulling back to this place. Nice.

We talk for a bit more and I try to build compliance with her by walking a few steps away from Vivo’s back entrance.

I wanted to have more privacy since there were people coming out as the place was starting to close, but she didn’t want to move and “lose” her friend.

Searching For An Afterparty

Her friend eventually comes out and we talk for a bit, and talk about an afterparty.

I didn’t want to pull the girls back and have an afterparty back at my friend’s place yes because I wanted to allow him to have more time and isolation with his girl.

Then 2 guys from the hookah table where the Irish girl was sitting at, come out from the back entrance of Vivo and say goodbye to us and give the girls a hug.

The girls start talking softly amongst themselves and asked where the guys were going to if they were going to an afterparty. I knew they were attracted to them because they also said that they smelled good lol.

I then get an idea of using one of the guy’s places as a pull location for an afterparty if they lived nearby.

I didn’t care if the girls were attracted to them because I knew I already had more investment and attraction since I kissed both girls and made-out with the Italian girl.

I then use this as an opportunity and I yell out to the guys, “Where are you going?” The guys stop and we walk towards each other.

I found out they lived nearby and I tried to push for an afterparty back at one of the guy’s places. He thinks about it but he starts second guessing because he has to get up early for work tomorrow with his friend.

I pushed it for several minutes and even tried to lower their compliance threshold by saying that we’ll just have 1 drink and then bounce. They said they didn’t have drinks, but the girls said they had drinks at their car.

The guys were thinking about for a while but it was a no go for them, but I get in the car with the girls, and we start thinking about where to go to next.

My girl says she might know someone, but I’m already texting my friend who I came with and got confirmed to bring the girls over.

I tell the girls we’re going to my friends place and I direct them to go a few blocks away to where he lives. We park, grab the drinks and go inside.

My friend greets the Irish girl at the door and they are already upstairs.

We walk up stairs and I offer to take my girl’s coat once we’re inside, so she gets more comfortable. The Irish girl is sitting next to my friend on the coach.

I overhear some slight bickering between them when she teased him about his choice of music. However, he took it a little too seriously and told her that she didn’t have good taste in music and shouldn’t criticize in someone else’s home…

Lol nooo dude… she was just flirting and breaking rapport with you.

He just needed to break rapport back in a playful non-reactive way and it would have been great.

However, the vibe changed to a more serious tone after that and the Irish girl became a little more quiet.

I started pouring the drinks from the girl’s car and my girl starts complimenting my friend’s place and then he ends up getting up from the couch and says he’ll give her a “tour” lol..

I thought it was apparent the Italian girl was mine since I was leading her by the hand as I was walking to my friend’s place and he saw us.

Maybe he just got a little frustrated with the Irish girl or he wanted my girl because she was hotter or maybe he was trying to be a good host?

girl holding basketballI’m not sure, but after I finished pouring the drinks, the Irish girl appeared out of nowhere in front of me with a random basketball about to throw it at me lol…

Apparently she found it at one of my friend’s rooms and she smiles and and throws it at me to play around.

I then break rapport by telling her that she should have better b-ball skills if she’s from “Brooklyn”.

She then says, “Well, I did fuck a black guy once so maybe that helped me.”

Ding Ding Ding! We found a winner!

1st Isolation With Irish Girl

She then grabs the basketball and runs into the office room as she smiles and looks back at me to see if I follow her.

Of course, I follow her and I could tell she wants to be fucked now…

However, my original girl was the Italian girl who was hotter and part of me wanted to sleep with the Italian girl first.

I walked into the room and thought about the closing and locking the door and start escalating towards sex…

That’s what I SHOULD have done…

But decided to pursue the Italian girl first, so I didn’t escalate…

Really stupid mistake on my part… This would have been a guaranteed lay and made it easier for my friend to get laid too since he seemed to be getting along better with the Italian girl.

The Irish girl pretends to go through over some my friend’s random stuff in his office room to give me time to escalate.

She eventually walked out after a few seconds and I see my friend walk out of the kitchen with my girl and they seemed to be getting along.

I talk to the Italian girl again and we start dancing for a bit after my friend puts on some music. He is sitting down the couch with the Irish girl again and I could tell there was a little drama between them already. Shit lol…

The Irish girl was’t agreeing with the hip-hop music. I tried pulling my girl into the same office room where the Irish girl brought me, and she was starting to follow but then stopped and said we needed to pick a music everybody liked.

We eventually picked something that everybody liked, which was reggaeton.

2nd Isolation With Italian Girl

Since my girl was now closer to the kitchen, I started walking her towards the kitchen and into the bathroom.

I thought everything would be cool between my friend and the Irish girl now that there was music they both liked.

I lead my girl into the bathroom and immediately close and lock the door.

bathroom makeoutI start escalating by making out with her and and rubbing my leg in between her pussy.

I was able to suck on her tits, but whenever I tried to rub her pussy with my hand, she eventually pushed it away.

We kept making out and did some playful rough and tumble, and she even tried to dominate me for a second lol.

We were in there for about 10 minutes, but she kept thinking she was hearing some conflict in the other room and it slightly broke her state and didn’t help with overcoming her last minute resistance.

I thought I may have have heard something too, but I couldn’t make out what was being said so continued escalating with my girl.

Eventually, we started hearing some loud disagreements in the living room.

It was pretty clear there was something going, so I didn’t want to ruin comfort or risk having things really escalate out of hand with my friend and her friend, so I told my girl we could check up on them.

We left the bathroom and go into the living room.

Severing Rapport And Rebuilding Comfort

Her friend was crying and trying to leave, but my friend was speaking calmly at her and asked her what’s wrong, but she kept saying she wanted to leave.

My girl wanted to stay and she asked her friend a few times to see if she really wanted to leave, and she confirmed.

Then my girl started getting ready and said they’ll leave. Damn lol…

As they were leaving, my friend said, “What’s wrong? It must be because her father died…” as he opened the door to let her leave.

I was dumbstruck by what he just said. He completely severed rapport with his girl and my girl. My girl flipped out and yelled, “Why would you say that!?”

angry woman

I literally was shocked by what was going on. My girl was flipping out a bit and kept asking my friend why he would say something like that.

It was pretty interesting how calmly my friend handled her.

He spoke very softly and pushed his hands out and calmed her down rather quickly, but she was still very upset.

He had a stronger frame but he still took it way too far with that last comment lol.

Anyway, I walked my girl out and number closed her as I walked her out the door.

I walked back upstairs to talk with my friend so I can figure out what exactly happened.

I ended up going back to get the Irish girl’s coat and gave it back to her to build some comfort with both of them.

They were going back to their place, which was about 40 minutes away. My girl had to drop off her friend first, which was several minutes out of her way back to her place.

I thought the set was pretty much done due to the comfort that was destroyed from my friend.

If I wanted to stay the set, I could have tried to get a ride with them on the way back, and somehow turn that emotional pendulum around positively and get a threesome or at least end up back at my girl’s place and go for the close.

Part of me didn’t want to leave my car in town and be forced to get an Uber 40 minutes away or something, but if it would have been for a potential threesome or close with one of them, it would have been worth it.

There a few things I could have done better.

I could have gone for a three-way make-out back at Vivo when my instincts told me to do so, and just stay cool, keep things sexual, pump BT and stayed in with them and go back to their place, even if it was 40 minutes away.

I could act like I was dropped off at Vivo’s, didn’t have a car and tell them that I lived nearby them or seed the pull for an after-party, threesome, pillow fight, or whatever to go back to their place.

I could have slept with the Irish girl when she brought me into isolation in my friend’s apartment.

I could have stayed in at the end and gone in there car as a last ditch effort and rebuild comfort with them back to their place.

Not all stories are a success but you learn valuable lessons from them. Sometimes the “failures” or “mistakes” are where you learn and grow from the most. I hope you got some value out of this and learned something as well.

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